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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 2:06 am | |
| Yo, FriendlyFoe here.. long live T1DB | |
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3CheersForSweetRevenge Double Stone Axe
Number of posts : 40 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-18
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 4:14 am | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 4:19 am | |
| The Law of the Seed
Take a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the tree, but each apple has just ten seeds. That's a lot of seeds!
We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees?" Nature has something to teach us here. It's telling us: "Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow.
So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once."
This might mean:
You'll attend twenty interviews to get one job. You'll interview forty people to find one good employee. You'll talk to fifty people to sell one house, one car, one vacuum cleaner, one insurance policy, or a business idea. And you might meet a hundred acquaintances just to find one special friend.
When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed.
We stop feeling like victims.
We learn how to deal with things that happen to us.
Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to understand them - and work with them.
IN A NUTSHELL
Successful people fail more often. But they plant more seeds.
When Things Are Beyond your control, here's something that you must NOT DO so as to avoid misery in your life:
You must not decide how you think the world SHOULD be. You must not make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave. Then, when the world doesn't obey your rules, you get angry! That's what miserable people do!
On the other hand, let's say you expect that:
Friends SHOULD return favours. People SHOULD appreciate you. Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest. Your husband or best friend SHOULD remember your birthday.
These expectations may sound reasonable. But often, these things won't happen!
So you end up frustrated and disappointed.
There's a better strategy. Demand less, and instead, have preferences!
For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:
"I WOULD PREFER "A", BUT IF "B" HAPPENS, IT'S OK TOO!"
This is really a change in mindset. It is a shift in attitude, and it gives you more peace of mind ...
You prefer that people are polite ... but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin your day. You prefer sunshine ... but if it rains, it is ok too!
To become happier, we either need to
a) Change the world, or
b) Change our thinking
It is easier to change our Thinking!
IN A NUTSHELL
It is not the problem that is the issue, but rather it is your attitude attending to the problem that is the problem.
It's not what happens to you that determine your happiness.
It's how you think about what happens to you! | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 4:20 am | |
| the above post is wat u need to be successful in life.. =)) | |
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3CheersForSweetRevenge Double Stone Axe
Number of posts : 40 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-18
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 4:29 am | |
| I'll teach you how to be successful. Get a gun, do a virginia tech encore telecast and put a bullet in your head. Everyone will remember your name for 10 years down the road. If you're lucky u might get into the Guiness book of records too. | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 5:10 am | |
| thats not even a way of success???? killing yourself is success? tts the most stupid way ever.. lols | |
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cookiie Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 158 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-11
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 5:20 am | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 5:22 am | |
| cookie, read!! u might need it in the future!! | |
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cookiie Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 158 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-11
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 5:37 am | |
| i see one whole chunk den forget abt it le i tink i watch drama shows can learn le | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sun May 20, 2007 2:55 pm | |
| drama takes 1 month to learn.. aiyah nvm.......... | |
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Arisa Double Metal Axe
Number of posts : 61 Registration date : 2007-05-10
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Wed May 23, 2007 12:15 am | |
| I'M AN APPLE SEED~!!
I wanna change the world though.=x
We can put this in our storyboard! We're the future makers of movies, dramas..blahblah. | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Wed May 23, 2007 2:03 pm | |
| i only like to take the videos.. editing and stuff.. you peep do it.... ahahahaha | |
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ameliaZ Double Silver Axe
Number of posts : 84 Registration date : 2007-05-10
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Thu May 24, 2007 4:27 pm | |
| so chim. O,O did your malay teacher taught u that mohamud? | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Thu May 24, 2007 5:53 pm | |
| fuck the malay teacher.. shes a bitch from my school who doesnt teach us any shit, she's just like a walking textbook!! btw, u spelled it wrongly and u don't rock at all and yr name is not mia its amelia, treasure yr name and u are not a rock, u are a human being don't downgrade yourself dun put a yellow smiling face because yr face is not even yellow and u dun have that white teeth and yr eyes are not that small and u do have a nose | |
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Zjie Admin
Number of posts : 227 Age : 33 Country : Singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Thu May 24, 2007 8:46 pm | |
| and a ear also lol mike..why u so serious..relax ar.. | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Thu May 24, 2007 10:40 pm | |
| lols was venting my anger juz now, i screwed up editing test | |
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Zjie Admin
Number of posts : 227 Age : 33 Country : Singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Thu May 24, 2007 11:37 pm | |
| lol..i see.. nvm..i also flunked it.. | |
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ameliaZ Double Silver Axe
Number of posts : 84 Registration date : 2007-05-10
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 3:45 am | |
| so i fucking sweh to let u vent anger on. fuck. | |
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ameliaZ Double Silver Axe
Number of posts : 84 Registration date : 2007-05-10
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 3:52 am | |
| & pls lah. u dono what's short form. u dono how i got my name then don't comment so much. & emocons are meant to be used anyway. | |
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3CheersForSweetRevenge Double Stone Axe
Number of posts : 40 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-18
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 4:01 am | |
| mike relax man you're not the nice guy we know anymore. Keep your anger at a minimum, and dont swear in front of girls. Someone once told me when you say fuck to your friends its like a joke, but when you curse in front of girls it just show how crude you are Smile more brother. | |
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Zjie Admin
Number of posts : 227 Age : 33 Country : Singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 10:26 am | |
| ya..i also call Zjie leh
i think we should give weirong a shorter name.."Wrong"W[ei]rong? | |
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3CheersForSweetRevenge Double Stone Axe
Number of posts : 40 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-18
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 3:03 pm | |
| ..............just call me rong pls tts how my friends call me. | |
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Zjie Admin
Number of posts : 227 Age : 33 Country : Singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 3:05 pm | |
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3CheersForSweetRevenge Double Stone Axe
Number of posts : 40 Age : 33 Registration date : 2007-05-18
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Fri May 25, 2007 9:56 pm | |
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FriendlyFoe Metal Doubled Sided Axe+
Number of posts : 152 Age : 33 Country : singapore Registration date : 2007-05-09
| Subject: Re: The best topic ever you just have to read it!! Sat May 26, 2007 4:31 pm | |
| lols i jkjk nia walau why u all so serious one sumpah i jk only =)) | |
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